Gui Mei · The Marrying Maiden
归妹卦 · 雷泽归妹
- Relationships
- Position
- Impulse
- The long view
The Judgment
Kwei Mei indicates that (under the conditions which it denotes) action will be evil, and in no wise advantageous.
征凶,无攸利。
The Image
Thunder over the lake: the marrying maiden. The noble one, in the same way, understands what will last to the end and recognises what will fail.
泽上有雷,归妹。君子以永终知敝。
Plain-language reading
Your situation
You may be in a relationship or partnership where your position is not ideal, or where the starting point was mostly impulse. Gui Mei is thunder moving over the lake, a young woman marrying, but the text warns that going forward brings misfortune: entering a bond on unequal or improper terms rarely ends well.
Where to put your effort
Take a calm look at this relationship or choice: is it built on equality and the long term? Think about where it will end up and see the possible problems in advance. If you are in a secondary position for now, keep your dignity and play your part well, and wait for a better moment rather than grabbing for position.
Four areas of life
- Career
- Advancing by the wrong means cannot last.
- Wealth
- Prices are fine, but the outcome is uncertain.
- Family
- Once married, do not live with your mother's family; do not indulge in passion.
- Health
- The end of the natural lifespan approaches.
Health notes come from traditional texts and are cultural reference only. If you feel unwell, please see a doctor.
The six lines
Read from the bottom up: the first line is at the bottom, the top line is at the top. Open each line for details.
Nine at the beginningThe first line, undivided, shows the younger sister married off in a position ancillary to the real wife. (It suggests the idea of) a person lame on one leg who yet manages to tramp along. Going forward will be fortunate.Moving
初九:归妹以娣,跛能履,征吉。
Image:Marrying as a secondary wife: this is the constant way. The lame can still walk: good fortune through supporting one another.
- Career
- Succeeding through others; nothing remarkable.
- Wealth
- Following instructions, you are lucky to profit.
- Family
- Even a side room is auspicious.
- Health
- Difficulty walking.
Nine in the second placeThe second line, undivided, shows her blind of one eye, and yet able to see. There will be advantage in her maintaining the firm correctness of a solitary widow.Moving
九二:眇能视,利幽人之贞。
Image:Favourable for a secluded person to persevere: not departing from the norm.
- Career
- Stop daydreaming; settle down and cultivate yourself.
- Wealth
- A unique insight brings quiet profit.
- Family
- Suited to a secluded life; a secondary role suits you.
- Health
- Look after your eyes.
Nine in the fourth placeThe fourth line, undivided, shows the younger sister who is to be married off protracting the time. She may be late in being married, but the time will come.Moving
九四:归妹愆期,迟归有时。
Image:The intention of delaying: waiting for the right time to act.
- Career
- Good luck comes in its own time; do not rush.
- Wealth
- Act when the time is right and you will profit.
- Family
- Do not move for now; it will take time.
- Health
- Rest calmly.
Related hexagrams
- OppositeJian · Gradual ProgressEvery line flipped: the same matter from the other side
- InverseJian · Gradual ProgressTurned upside down: the view from the other party
- NuclearJi Ji · After CompletionThe four middle lines: where things are heading inside
- PreviousJian · Gradual Progress
- NextFeng · Abundance
Judgment and line texts from the public-domain translation by James Legge (1882). Readings by DeepHeart AI.
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